Reflecting the 60 Blog

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People born in the 50s have lived in seven decades, two centuries, and two milleniums.  We had the best music, fastest cars, drive-in theaters, soda fountains, and happy days.  And we are not even that old yet.  We’re just that cool.

I visited with some childhood friends this weekend.  We’ve known each other about 45 years and I often reflect on how much we’ve changed, yet how much things remain the same.

Other than family members, can you name anyone in your life that you’ve known most, if not all, of your life?  I’m proud to say I have a few that I’ve known more than three-quarters of my life.  Plus, I have several important people in my life who are younger than me, and I have known them since they were born.

The greatest-girl-on-earth, Marissa, turned 30 last week.  30.  I remember the day she was born, her childhood days, her high school drama, her college graduation, her marriage and divorce, and her total awesomeness.  When I was 30, I was proud to have money in my 401(k) retirement account.  I can’t recall much else that was award-worthy.  Oh, I had a steady job, an apartment with Leslie, a car, a string of certifications indicating that I was good at my job.  Nothing to be ashamed about.

Marissa is another ball-of-wax.  She has the world ahead of her, she’s brilliant, and has a creative streak a mile wide.  She can do anything and will do everything.  And I couldn’t be more proud.  She has friends today that were friends in elementary school, and I want to encourage her to keep those friends forever.  Those friends will always be useful, even if she just uses them to write an ordinary blog post.



One thought on “Reflecting the 60 Blog

  1. Ahhh, friends. My daughter had a teacher when she was in 4th grade. Every night she came home with words of wisdom. Miss So and So says this…Miss So and So says that. All lovely. One always stuck out with me. MAKE NEW FRIENDS BUT KEEP THE OLD. ONE IS SILVER, THE OTHER IS GOLD. I have many friends that I have known for years. Most of them seem to be around the 20-25 year mark. My oldest friend is John Weber. We have been best friends since I was in 7th grade, he was in 8th. They got married on my birthday about 30 years ago, so it’s very easy to remember. He is also my husband’s best friend, and they are exactly two weeks and one day apart in age. Which also means we’re best friends with their children, who are now 20 and 22. I’m also really good friends with another friend, and we’ve known each other probably since we were 5. The only reason I put John ahead of her, is with John it was a constant relationship all these years. Debbie and I had a 20 year break where we got out of touch. And Caryn, you and I have been friends since the good old days at Brobeck…1992. Love it and LOVE you! xoxo

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